An update - Luke

Yes, yes, I know this is the reason why you're all here. Luke is ... Luke. Since the last blog entry, he's had a number of surgeries (the last being on Thursday) including a re-trach where he had to spend a whole week in hospital. He was bored, bored, bored by the end of that week and very glad to come home.
This last surgery he went for a regular CA dilation and the plan was for the doc to take a look at his tonsils and take them out if he thought it would help Luke in breathing. We now have a little boy who has no tonsils. He still seems to be in some pain though. Plus he's been throwing up and I can't imagine how painful that must be for him - long live hydrocodone. He always seems to come out of hospital with a cold or some such malady and it's is no different this time. Which isn't helping matters. But he'll get over it.
He's now cruising quite well and seems to like standing. And climbing!! He climbs everything. He's fallen down the stairs twice and if he sees the gate open he rushes to get upstairs. He climbs onto the recliners and loves to stand up in them and rock the chair. He also loves wiping his runny nose (and it is always runny) on the nearest object - our shirts, the couch, the cloth books of his. In fact everything but the tissue we have in our hands. If we wipe his nose he is not happy and pushes our hands away.
He's also started to show some interest in clapping his own hands - he's been clapping our hands for months now. But we seen him do it himself a few times now and hopefully he'll start clapping to show he's excited or happy instead of biting his index fingers. His fingers have callouses on them where he's bitten them so much and we're hoping he starts to like clapping.
Despite everything he's gone through, he's still amazingly happy. If it was me going through all this, I would have kicked the doctor in the balls by now. But he's realized that going to the hospital means pain and the last two surgeries he's cried when going into the prep room. Candi said he tried to stay in the stroller by pushing the tray back down after she lifted it up, and then he held onto the sides of the stroller so he couldn't be picked up. And yet he almost always has a great big smile on his face. Even now with his throat and nose hurting, he's mostly happy. And his smile just makes our life a little easier.
I'm sure I've missed a whole bunch of stuff but that's just me getting older and more forgetful.
I'll try to post more as it comes up.

Luke's first day at The Bell Center this year - he likes his locker.

An update - Candi and I

Well what can I say. We're still the same: tired from lack of sleep; stressed about all the stuff dealing with Luke's issues; worried about what the next course of action is; proud of everything Sam, Gus and Luke do; sick of being tired, stressed and worried; happy that all 3 boys are smiley, joyful children; excited when any of the boys do something new and unexpected.
We haven't changed at all. :)
So this summer (winter to you in the southern hemisphere), the end of July in fact, we all went to Chicago for the 9th annual Worldwide Conference on CHARGE Syndrome. And by we, I mean all 6 of us: us 5 and Candi's mum (yes mum, not mom. I don't say mom so deal with it :) ) Well that was a roller-coaster of emotions. You go from being excited to happy to emotional to ... just name it and we experienced it. And it's all packed into 3 days. But we learned a lot, we were inspired by other people's stories and we met a whole bunch of people that we knew only through blog posts. It was wonderful to finally meet them all in person see how wonderful all of them are. There were some that couldn't make it but we fully expect to see them at the next conference, July 2011 in Orlando. :) I'm sure we'll be there the week before spending a few magical days in DisneyWorld.

An update - Sam and Gus

Well, after a month or 9, I've now hijacked this blog. Muahahaahaha. We're all doing fine, pretty much the same old, same old. Where to begin? Let's see ... Sam and Gus. They're doing brilliantly in school (2nd grade now) with reading and math above average. They're now Wolf Cub Scouts and still loving it. The 3 of us spent a night on the USS Alabama with our pack and 3 other packs. That was very cool. It really makes you respect the armed forces and what they had to endure 70 years ago. The cots were very small and triple bunked, held together with chains. 60 berths per room. And then they were at war as well. It certainly made me appreciate what I can only imagine what they went through. We had access to most of the ship and spent hours and hours going up and down steep ladders trying to find all that we could. It literally is a floating city. Then there was the submarine. I just can't imagine what it was like during war in that vessel. The boys were so tired that by 8pm they were begging to go to bed. That doesn't happen too often. The scouts are the only people that are allowed to spend the night on the Alabama, so we couldn't pass that one up. And next weekend we spend 2 nights camping out some caverns north of the city. That's just for our pack. We'll be learning knots and a bunch of other scouting stuff.